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I began interviewing my family members first on their thoughts on infidelity but seeing as most of my family that I can actually come to and ask questions are men and they find nothing wrong with infidelitythat didn't work out too good. S I went to my second plan (plan B) I asked my friends They came up with some pretty good things. Here's what some of them said:

I asked My soon to be boyfriend A'marie Bolton and his reply was:

" Infidelity is a feeling of loneliness and emptyness and you want to fill it with the right thing but the thing you have isn't going to fill it, so you go else where to look for it, and when you find it or atleast think you have you want to have your cake and eat it too and when you get caught you tell your spouse that you didn't mean for it to happen like that but it has to be over for that given moment in time because he has or atleast thought he found something better." That one didn't help me out at all I was very confused so I asked my good friend Nakiyah Holman.

Nakiyah Said" Girl cheatin' is cheatin' no matter how you put it, reguardless of how you doin' it, where you doin' it or who your doin' it with it's cheatin'. It has the same effects on guys as it does women and it hurts no matter what it's a part of life get over it."

as you can see neither answer was clear at all so my search continues and hopefully I can do somemore research and figure out something.